IF U ARE GRATEFUL, I WILL SURELY INCREASE YOU (IN FAVOR).

Surah Ibrahim 14.7

When I start thinking about the topic of my article, I have gone through many ideas, words or more proper verbs to make it look perfect but end up figuring out that it’s just a topic, I have to choose the word that sums up my whole concept. A signal concept or idea to help, finding out and give a nice restart to our boring busy clumsy life. While writing the title instead of chance I write it as the destination but then realizing that if u find that specific destination then what’s the point to move further, so that’s the point life never stops, it just keeps going with its flow, need one chance. I am not a philosopher, doctor or therapist but that is something I have learned from this short span of life, or I can say that so-called lockdown, with all that voices, stay home stay safe.

STAY HOME STAY SAFE GIVE CHANCE FEAR IS NOT AN OPTION
Maria Fayyaz

STAY HOME STAY SAFE GIVE CHANCE FEAR IS NOT AN OPTION

IF U ARE GRATEFUL, I WILL SURELY INCREASE YOU (IN FAVOR).

Surah Ibrahim 14.7

When I start thinking about the topic of my article, I have gone through many ideas, words or more proper verbs to make it look perfect but end up figuring out that it’s just a topic, I have to choose the word that sums up my whole concept. A signal concept or idea to help, finding out and give a nice restart to our boring busy clumsy life. While writing the title instead of chance I write it as the destination but then realizing that if u find that specific destination then what’s the point to move further, so that’s the point life never stops, it just keeps going with its flow, need one chance. I am not a philosopher, doctor or therapist but that is something I have learned from this short span of life, or I can say that so-called lockdown, with all that voices, stay home stay safe.

Is staying home is that easy as people saying these cool short rhymes. We all think that, right! So what side are we. Solving problem or making them worse? And the answer will be like yes, I want to solve the problem, but deep inside a corner of heart knowing that there is somehow less possibility to solve. It doesn’t mean that we can’t solve it but we just have less motivation, hope or spirit. While all over we were doing our 9 to 5 jobs, business, or busy with social media spending a cumbersome life, scrolling new feeds .and all the sudden we had a piece of news. TO STOP, AND STAY HOME.

 

IF U ARE GRATEFUL, I WILL SURELY INCREASE YOU (IN FAVOR).
Surah Ibrahim 14.7
When I start thinking about the topic of my article, I have gone through many ideas, words or more proper verbs to make it look perfect but end up figuring out that it’s just a topic, I have to choose the word that sums up my whole concept. A signal concept or idea to help, finding out and give a nice restart to our boring busy clumsy life. While writing the title instead of chance I write it as the destination but then realizing that if u find that specific destination then what’s the point to move further, so that’s the point life never stops, it just keeps going with its flow, need one chance. I am not a philosopher, doctor or therapist but that is something I have learned from this short span of life, or I can say that so-called lockdown, with all that voices, stay home stay safe.

Now coming back to point, so where we get this motivation stuff, are we gone find it or we have to buy. Buying them, what’s that mean? We are living in an aura where everything is marketed, we have to present our self in a societal manner and if not, we are unacceptable. There we create an initial dot of depression in our subconscious, a fear of not one of the finest person, to be alone, not passionate like others, not successful, adventures or delightful. Then we start designing ourselves on the standards of our parents, sibling, and relatives, sometimes friends or loved one. Now, this all comparison, compassion, success, goals, standards, and achievement, create the circle of depression and what we do, we ignored it because having a mental illness in our society is pretended to be invisible, unimportant or just a way to gain attention. So we demolished it, because of the fear, not to be judged by the society, where a woman shouldn’t allow to speak about their problems, hidden desires, it’s not the right thing to do, and from centurions it is considered that men should act, to be strong no matter the situation is going on. That’s the reality of our society.

As I believe that life never stops, so we all live with our circle of depression, fear and anxiety continuing our daily routine, repeating our same mistakes and routine, expecting different and better results, which not possible. The funny part, we all are living with depression-like it’s a part of life, and not to worry about it’s, just a depression, we don’t have time for this to give just one look.

Is staying home is that easy as people saying these cool short rhymes we all think that right So what side are we solving problem or making them worse And the answer will be like yes

STAY HOME, STAY SAFE. We hear this nice small effective statement from every news channel, reports even advertisement. All the sudden, one outbreak, and all our standards, norms, technology, culture, festivals, communication, traveling not just stop but banned. This is reality, the earth just took one break to settle down, the scientist is researching that the earth is going to be better. So what we need to understand that this is the time to take a break, stop dancing in the same circle, to think, develop our self, admire our uniqueness, feel that we are different from others, that’s the beauty of life that’s called acceptance, accept our self. Knowing our strength and weakness, knowing our beauty and intelligence, understanding our feeling and all start when we accept our self and stop running and ruining our life.

And He has made me blessed wherever I am Surah Maryam 19.31

We think that we are stuck with the situation, where even a signal touch can affect a person. So why not, we see it as an opportunity, where every signal person is at home and the whole world is suffering from the same condition, nothing to admire nor to compare. So why not, give a chance to ourselves, to know more about our likes dislike, acknowledge our success, achievement, good or bad decisions. Not to regard but to let go and start living together. One thing always has to quote in our mind that people forget, either good or bad, everything is replaceable, and reframed with a better option. We have to think on chooses, happiness, and do what makes u satisfy. If u are sad, unhappy so it’s okay, say it don’t hide it. Love, hate, emotions are not meant to hide. Give freedom to express your feeling, share it, and feel how heart gloom’s. 

The funny part, we all are living with depression-like it’s a part of life, and not to worry about it’s, just a depression, we don’t have time for this to give just one look.

Just give a chance to ourselves to choose freedom, which makes us responsible for our happiness sadness, knowledge and satisfaction. Being satisfied is more important than being famous or rich. We have to be human first for ourselves then we can treat others with the same maturity, love, and affection. Staying home with family includes parents, siblings or kids is a blessing. Forgive others and be thankful for what u have. Now, this is time to meet your real one, develop the best version of our self-sound interesting. I assure you it possible. 

The best deed of a great man is to forgive and forget Hazrat Ali R.A

Just give a chance to ourselves to choose freedom, which makes us responsible for our happiness sadness, knowledge and satisfaction. Being satisfied is more important than being famous or rich. We have to be human first for ourselves then we can treat others with the same maturity, love, and affection. Staying home with family includes parents, siblings or kids is a blessing. Forgive others and be thankful for what u have. Now, this is time to meet your real one, develop the best version of our self-sound interesting. I assure you it possible. 
The best deed of a great man is to forgive and forget Hazrat Ali R.A
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