According to research about 90% people uses or visits social media each week/day, sharing stuff but expressing the true real self is important. In the world of social media, we all have an ideal self, we adore, we want to be like that because we find that ideal self more strong, impactful or successful etc. but we forget our goals due to that ideal perception.

Projected And Real Self On Social Media

Projected And Real Self On Social Media

Rimsha Zia

By Rimsha Zia

Social media, fastest medium allowing people to share their lives, emotions and thoughts with other people publicly. People have found their long-lost friends, class fellows, and colleagues through Facebook. That, perhaps, is the sweetest part of the social networking sites. But there are some flaws too, the problem arises that what we are and what we portrayed ourselves on social media.

According to research about 90% people uses or visits social media each week/day, sharing stuff but expressing the true real self is important. In the world of social media, we all have an ideal self, we adore, we want to be like that because we find that ideal self more strong, impactful or successful etc. but we forget our goals due to that ideal perception.

Our real self is what we are. It reflects our own identity, characteristics, abilities, attributes, goals and skills. Impersonating yourselves in terms of that ideal self-causes depression and leads to the failure because if a person lives in the fantasy of that ideal self, he loses his focus and when a person starts losing his interest in his own self confidence which means that you are doubtful in your own skills and capabilities.

Projected And Real Self On Social Media

According to E. Tory there are three self-perceptions written below:

  1. An actual self-real:Qualities you believe you have.
  2. An ideal self: Characteristics and qualities you’d like to have. An ideal self is more about interests and your wishes, the way you’d like to see yourself.
  3. An ought self: Traits you believe you should possess. Self is more inclined towards principles and ethics.
Projected And Real Self On Social Media

For logical reasons, people do not publicize their negative personalities on their social profiles, nor they post their unattractive pictures. Because of this we are often fooled into believing other people’s lives are much better than our own.

Here are some tips to treat social media depression:

Take the time to get release from technology and social media accounts every day.

When faced with social media-induced self-loathing, confront your negative thoughts and question their origin and validity.

If you’re drawn to social media during times of boredom, ensure you have something to distract yourself, such as a book or fun phone app.

You must control this by focusing or aligning that ideal portrayed with your real self. By achieving that ideal profession, status etc. Stop analyzing your lifestyle with others, if you do so that means that you are not contented which makes you more confused. Legitimacy is important. Stay genuine with yourself and let your success makes some noise. For becoming something, it always takes some time, vitality and vivacity. Portray yourself, your own self what you are, and what you want to be and what kind of hurdles you suffered for achieving that specific goal. Work on your goals to get that ideal living style (you adore) rather than comparing your life with ideal fantasies. People will rate you shake you but at the end they will accept you as YOU. Be YOU, the entire world will adjust Take your time stay align and work hard till you accomplished your goals of ideal self in real self which makes you “THE REAL YOU”.

 

Projected And Real Self On Social Media
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